Socks might not be the first thing that comes to mind when planning a wedding outfit but overlooking them is a rookie mistake. On a day when every detail matters, your socks are more than just an afterthought. They are part of the full look, they’ll be in the photos, and crucially, they’ll be on your feet for the better part of 12 hours. That’s a long time to be uncomfortable, overheated, or constantly adjusting a pair that doesn’t quite fit.
A good pair of wedding socks does a few things at once. First, they need to be comfortable. That means no tight cuffs that dig in by midday, no cheap fabric that makes your feet sweat, and no seams that rub the wrong way halfway through your vows. Cotton or bamboo blends are usually a safe bet, offering breathability, softness and a bit of stretch. You’ll want something that fits snugly, stays up, and doesn’t require constant pulling. Most guys have experienced the slow slide of an ill-fitting sock, on your wedding day, that’s just not an option.
Once you’ve sorted out the fit and fabric, the next step is colour and pattern. And here’s where it gets interesting. Traditionally, black or dark navy socks have been the go-to for weddings. They’re safe, they match the suit, and they stay out of the spotlight. But more and more grooms are realising that socks are one of the few places where you can add a bit of personality to an otherwise formal outfit. It’s a subtle way to say something about who you are, without stepping outside the tone of the day.
Plain socks in charcoal, deep blue, forest green or burgundy are popular for a reason, they’re classic and versatile. If your suit is light grey or beige, a soft pastel might work nicely, adding a gentle contrast without drawing too much attention. The key here is harmony. You don’t need a perfect match to your tie or pocket square, but your socks should speak the same visual language. Stick to a complementary colour palette and avoid anything too jarring unless you’re deliberately going for contrast.
Patterns are where you can start to have a bit of fun. Stripes, small dots, or subtle geometric prints can add just the right amount of flair. They show a bit of effort and personality, without shouting. Think of patterns as the equivalent of a well-chosen lapel pin or cufflink. They’re not the star of the show, but they round out the look. Just make sure they’re not clashing with the rest of the outfit. If you’re wearing a patterned shirt or tie, keep the socks more restrained. If the rest of your look is quite classic, your socks can carry a bit more visual interest.
Colour blocking and bolder styles can work well too, particularly for grooms who want a slightly modern or playful edge. Matching the groomsmen with coordinated socks with the same colour, same pattern; is a simple touch that looks great in photos and brings a sense of cohesion. Some grooms go the opposite route, choosing to wear a pair that’s different from the rest of the party. It’s a small but effective way to set yourself apart.
Then there’s the question of novelty socks. Can you get away with them? The short answer is: it depends. A discreet pattern or a small logo on the side? Fine. Bright blue socks covered in flamingos or Star Wars characters? Maybe not. Unless your wedding has a very relaxed or quirky dress code, novelty socks are best saved for the bucks night. Your wedding outfit doesn’t need to be completely serious, but it should still feel intentional and put-together.
Comfort, though, trumps everything. If you’re unsure about a certain pair, wear them for a full day well before the wedding. Go for a walk, sit down, stand up, do a trial dance in your lounge room. If anything about them bothers you after an hour or two, imagine how they’ll feel after standing at the altar, posing for photos, and dancing through the night.
Socks also need to work with your shoes. Dark brown shoes with black socks? Never a good idea. Tan leather goes well with navy or warm-toned socks, while black shoes need something similarly dark or richly coloured. If you’re wearing loafers or low-cut shoes and plan on showing some ankle, no-show socks are an option but only if the formality of the event allows it. For most weddings, a proper dress sock that covers the calf is the safer choice. Ankles peeking out during the vows can be a little distracting, especially in a church or formal setting.
If you’re part of the bridal party, best man, groomsman, or father of the bride your socks should coordinate with the overall styling, but you’ve got a bit more flexibility. Matching the socks to the theme colours or adding a small personal touch is a great way to join in without stealing the groom’s spotlight. Often, these pairs are given as gifts, and some men choose to wear them again for future special events, which says something about their value and wearability.
It’s also worth remembering that socks make great keepsakes from the day. They’re one of the few things you wear at the wedding that can easily become part of your regular wardrobe after. A well-chosen pair can live on well beyond the big day, popping up during date nights, anniversaries or just as a quiet reminder of a pretty significant moment. So, while it may seem like a minor decision, there’s something satisfying about pulling on the same pair of socks a year later and remembering exactly where you were when you first wore them.
Ultimately, the best wedding socks are the ones you do not have to think about once they’re on. They should feel good, stay in place, and hold their own in both candid snaps and posed portraits. They do not need to be flashy, but they do need to be intentional. Like a good haircut or a properly fitted shirt, they should do their job without fuss.
So, when the suit is tailored, the shoes are shined, and the flowers are pinned, spare a moment for your socks. Choose them with care. Because even though they’re mostly hidden, you’ll know they’re there, and when everything else is taken care of, that little bit of confidence and comfort can go a surprisingly long way.
